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Michelle Elisabeth Varghese's avatar

Really enjoyed this one Taylor!

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Steven Foster's avatar

Imagine Abraham at the age he received his calling to go to a faraway land and have offspring that will outnumber the sand.

This piece of yours has prompted me to consider the difference between destiny and dignity. There is also a curious difference between agency and advocacy. The world has sold us on destiny and agency. But it is from dignity, the imago dei, that appears to me to be the realest trunk of the tree. And it is Christ's conference of the advocate which we call the Holy Spirit that should inspire every adventure worth embarking on. For agency is that unburdened selfish thing it seems to me. But the advocate of the Kingdom of Heaven has that perfectly weighted burden that intercedes for others. Perhaps that is what the great work is of our generation. That we would not enslave ourselves by the fears of our parents but that by our own reverence of the Mighty One we could intercede for even that generation that gave birth to you and me.

It is always good to read you. and congratulations on several wonderful pieces this year. My best to you always. May you continue to be blessed.

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Classics Read Aloud's avatar

Steve Martin’s autobiography, Born Standing Up, is a great read….an apt example of commitment + destiny for this thoughtful essay. He had remarkable stick-to-it-iveness.

Substack is a place where, if you’re not producing work in your field of destiny (often otherwise called “following your passion”), you’re really not going to create lasting success. The field is too crowded. There may be some clickbait flashes of what looks like success, but subscribers soon tire when they sniff out the lack of authenticity.

It’s a rather exciting fundamental truth, actually, for those genuinely pursuing the work of their life (I happily count myself among them…we’ll see where it leads)!

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Jeff Sullivan's avatar

Excellent essay, enjoyed reading this.

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James Taylor Foreman's avatar

Thanks, Jeff.

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John Fletcher's avatar

What a beautiful piece. What a way to catch the subtle animal of destiny from the jaws of agency. I definitely resonate with this message

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James Taylor Foreman's avatar

Appreciate the kind words, John.

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Michael Barros's avatar

This was beautifully written!

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James Taylor Foreman's avatar

An accident, I assure you.

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No's avatar

Wow. Thank you for this

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James Taylor Foreman's avatar

No, thank you.

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Michael Boccio's avatar

find the language interesting because in interviews I call myself a problem solver which works in a professional setting. high agency individuals sound like they like the smell of their own farts but hey I think the spirit is actually right even if the language signals an out group

I think you are scratching at meeting moments of synchronicity when they occur to achieve destiny which I also think is a good concept

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James Taylor Foreman's avatar

Interesting. I wonder how you see their language signaling an out group.

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Michael Boccio's avatar

great question. I exist in a grey area of the old DiBlasio tale of two cities (in NYC). high income, high expense, renter, not owner. not quite in either distinct class

I have two distinct dialects - how I speak at work and how I speak as a human. that sound like something that is technically a correct concept but if framed that way, would just get me negative work outcomes. bad narrative that you could say far more productively

dunno the out group would be in relation to the professional class? that’s all I got I’m not the most articulate at nuanced thoughts

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James Taylor Foreman's avatar

Appreciate this response. Something for me to think about.

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Louis Wain's avatar

I advocate for lead in gasoline and paint, do something about it

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Theresa's avatar

I can’t get my head around what you mean by destiny. I get that agency entails a lot of “strutting and fretting” as we live/exist. But destiny? Is this what we are or where we are at the moment of death, or what we are or where we are the moment after death? Or does the term include certain important (albeit temporary) destinations as we live/exist?

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Justin's avatar

Thank you much. Hmm so is Michael Sklar’s personal cartography, laying out the map of one’s destiny

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