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I like Jordan Peterson. Like a lot of people in post-Soviet countries did.

The first time I saw him was on the Joe Rogan Experience, and then I started digging his lectures, his debate with Sam Harris. What struck me wasn’t what he thought, but how he thought. He showed me that symbolic thinking can exist without naivety, tradition can exist without obedience, that myth doesn’t have to mean regression and critique doesn’t have to crumble into nihilism.

This was fresh for me. Not because I’d never encountered these ideas at all. What was new was realising how deprived Western public discourse seemed of these modes of thought and how allergic it was to them.

Later, when I moved to Europe, a lot of things disturbed me. Like trying to talk to people about Peterson and discovering that many of them had absolutely no idea what he actually said, what he stood for, or what intellectual tradition he came from, but they already had a fully formed opinion about him. Honestly, it was fucked up.

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I'm happy to read this. I'm not a fan, and I'm not a hater but I went through a 2016 whirlwind of loathing him for a few sound bites (his stance on pronouns that was my introduction to his work) and wrote him off entirely because knee jerk EW. I tried to watch a few other clips on YouTube because a young guy who cooked at my restaurant said he thought I might enjoy what a shit stirrer he was. I appreciate that sort of thing and he knew it and we often had amazing debates working in the kitchen together- he was a philosophy major, smart and thoughtful and complex- didn't fit neatly into any box, like all my favorite people (including myself, minus the formal philosophy education; and this case "him" for clarity's sake is my cook, not JP)

I reported back that I couldn't get past the entitled whiny crap about his dismissiveness about pronouns. He agreed and we didn't discuss further beyond him saying "I didn't think you'd LIKE him, just find his approach interesting" meh

2 years later, I'm at my now husband's house. I spot a printout of JP's 12 Rules taped up next to his workstation. Oh boy, I thought. Then he mentioned a recent Joe Rogan podcast 🚩🚨🚩🚨

I hadn't yet begun to identify as an anarchist (because wow is that word/philosophy misunderstood) but I was beyond liberal, no bleeding heart on my sleeve hand wringing NIMBY and I took a lot of pride in identifying as a disrupter and standing up for/with the underdogs. But it was then I realized that I was just as guilty of writing people off without actually engaging beyond sound bites. At the time I was also disillusioned by feminism and the online cult behavior of it all, especially younger women, but I kept my flag in that hill in some hopes that discourse would mature. It would be a few more years before I embraced anarchism and animism as ecosystem thinking and not isms with dogma. But who we associate with *matters*

So I really liked this guy and decided to practice what I preached about actually being open minded. I furiously listened to a smattering of Rogan episodes. Not for me, but I gained insight beyond the clips and adjusted my stance. Was I fan? No. But I softened and started to see why he was so popular and it's not just toxic bro culture stuff. Same with JP. They're case studies in media manipulation from many different angles, and I maintain they wield their influence irresponsibily, but like anything popular, it's not necessarily the icon that's terrible- it's the fan base and interpretations that skew the reality

Fast forward a year later and I'm sitting in a theater (nervously, like an interloper) waiting for JP to take the stage. I had a long list of suppositions about the audience, mostly younger white men. But I was surprised at the number of women and non-white people in attendance. It was orderly, people were kind, patient, earnest and eager- the energy was reverent. Peterson took the stage and was genuinely a rambling delight to listen to. He corrected himself as went, he changed course, he was nimble and charming. What the hell 😂

Again, still not a fan. But I get it now. He's so much more that a few sound bites but I find his authoritarian/authoritative stance to be deeply at odds with my values. Yet I also see his *archetype* and how young men, in this day and age, would find that appealing. And it opened much more empathy and understanding for the wide gray expanse between incel and "ideal" man. My husband is more of a fan than he'll admit, and one spell where I couldn't effectively get through to him I addended JP's 12 Rules with a (anarchist animist) wife version. Because the man was onto something- but it's so incomplete. Yet I also have that man to thank for inspiring my work in system roles and making space for complexity without complicity.

And now that my response is as long as your essay... I'll stop there 😂 thanks for being a great example of holding multiple truths. Oh and, I came across re-enchantment via Craig Chalquist in his essay about why he no longer teaches the Heroes Journey, before I knew about JP (such a hipster move! Ha!)

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